{"id":11846,"date":"2021-03-30T03:15:03","date_gmt":"2021-03-30T10:15:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/?p=11846"},"modified":"2021-04-01T18:54:16","modified_gmt":"2021-04-02T01:54:16","slug":"message-of-the-day-103","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/?p=11846","title":{"rendered":"Message of the Day: Human Rights"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-11856\" src=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-5-300x184.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"184\" srcset=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-5-300x184.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-5-150x92.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-5-768x472.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-5.jpeg 976w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-11859\" src=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-7-300x206.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-7-300x206.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-7-150x103.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-7-768x526.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/image-7.jpeg 976w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\"><em>My Father, the Killer<\/em>, Buenos Aires 1976-2021, BBC News, 25 March 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>With so much going in the world, major stories and major anniversaries are missed as never before. The toxic political and cultural chaos of the past several years has crowded out everything else. The attention span becomes more limited by social media and social norms sliding further into the abyss.<\/p>\n<p>And the pandemic, still, always the pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, some signs of hope. Vaccines, if human decency can prevail in the meantime and the toll of the lack of it does not outrace vaccines with variants and other issues. And more focus on basic needs for those who need it in the US than in decades. Perhaps a leading indicator, perhaps not given the politics polarized and more dangerous than any time since the Civil War, and similar contexts world wide alongside nationalism challenging global stability.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, basic needs and rights for all, equality and security for all, will, as we keep on saying, prevail, or we and the planet will not.<\/p>\n<p>As we&#8217;ve said, other global pandemics have raged for ages, such as a billion abused children and a billion going hungry and nuclear weapons everywhere about to spread and soon to destroy us unless the trend is reversed and the environment all life depends on increasingly inflicting the damage on us that we have inflicted on it.<\/p>\n<p>Part of moving forward as part of the solution instead of as part of the probelm, is remembering. Telling the truth. Insisting on justice.<\/p>\n<p>It is arguably true that the most important conflicts and revolts and civil wars and hopefully the ultimate prevailing of truth, justice and love, occurs in families. The majority of child abuse occurs there. The people who perpetrate the other worst deeds as part of larger social crimes against humanity are all members of families.<\/p>\n<p>A memory which was a\u00a0Cause c\u00e9l\u00e8bre in the 70&#8217;s and 80&#8217;s was the opposition to the right-wing military dictatorship in Argentina which came to power through a coup 45 years ago on March 24, 1976 and stayed in power until 1983.<\/p>\n<p>Virtually the same thing happened throughout Latin and Central America at the time, followed generally by the overthrow of those dictatorships, with democracy and governance ensuing by those often most repressed, at least in places and for a time, with democracy still at least tenuously continuing in most of these places.<\/p>\n<p>In part as a reaction to every corner of the globe being a conflict zone, or perceived as potentially one, between the US and Soviets during the Cold War, the US tacitly supported the military dictatorship in Argentina (The George Washington University national security project posted newly released national security documents showing this on the eve of the anniversary.) In other places in Latin and Central America, US involvement was similar or even more direct.<\/p>\n<p>Argentina was considered by many as the worst perpetrator of crimes against humanity during the era.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that made Argentina so promient as an issue were the\u00a0Mothers of the Plaza de Mayo (Madres de Plaza de Mayo), who demonstrated daily against the dictatorhip and whose founders were murdered or &#8220;disappeared&#8221; just as tens of thousands of others were&#8211;the reason for the protests of the Mothers.<\/p>\n<p>The leader of the military dictatorship was imprisoned for life for crimes against humanity, child trafficking, kidnapping and murder, and died in prison in 2013. Others were also convicted and imprisoned, including 29 more for life in 2017. The arm of justice in this situation turned out to be long so far, a promising side for international human rights enforcement, and of the impact of popular will, which is to say the collective impact of individual actions, in Argentina, which has also happened elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>The history of Argentina has been long and tortured in many ways, which is not going to be the subject here. But as everywhere, the core issue was and is the haves and have-nots, who has power and who doesn&#8217;t. We urge your own research and study of the history of Argentina, just as everywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>The subject here however, is centered on how change happens to protect human rights, what the cost is, what the cost of not doing so is, and how the family is inevitably often at the core of the call to and resistance to memory and change.<\/p>\n<p>We let this extraordinary Long Read from the BBC News, and accompanying documentary and podcast from the BBC World Service, speak for themselves:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/stories-51379981\">&#8220;My Father, the Killer&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Valeria Perasso,\u00a0Social Affairs correspondent, 25 March 2021, BBC World Service<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Did you actually kill hundreds of people, Dad?&#8221; It&#8217;s not a question that many people feel the need to ask their parents. But for a group of daughters and sons in Argentina, it became one they could not ignore.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-vk3nhx-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1116D\/production\/_117679996_young-v1.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Eduardo Kalinec in his uniform as a young policeman\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>When the phone rang in Anal\u00eda Kalinec&#8217;s Buenos Aires home on a wintry August afternoon, she had no reason to suspect the call would end up blowing her family apart.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;It was my mum. &#8216;Look, don&#8217;t freak out but Daddy is in jail,&#8217; she told me. &#8216;But don&#8217;t worry, this is just politics.&#8217; Until that phone call, I had never ever linked my dad&#8217;s job to the dictatorship. Not even remotely\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda&#8217;s father is Eduardo Emilio Kalinec, a former police officer who served under the brutal military junta that ruled Argentina between 1976 and 1983.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>He was accused of some of the worst human rights violations in the country&#8217;s recent past &#8211; over 180 cases of abduction, torture and murder committed in the regime&#8217;s secret detention camps.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>For the seven years it held power, the military government targeted political dissidents &#8211; communists, socialists, union leaders, students and artists. Up to 30,000 were &#8220;disappeared&#8221; after being kidnapped and illegally imprisoned by security officials like Kalinec.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>But Anal\u00eda hadn&#8217;t got even a hint of her father&#8217;s well-kept secrets until 2005, when she was 25, and received that call from her mum.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Kalinec was taken into custody and, despite his wife&#8217;s initial optimism, was never released. In 2010, he was given a life sentence for crimes against humanity.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;He asked me: &#8216;Do you think I&#8217;m a monster?'&#8221; Anal\u00eda says. &#8220;What did he expect me to say? It was my beloved dad, I was so close to him\u2026 I was stunned.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/0061\/production\/_117679000_pic-6.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Anal\u00eda dances with her father, Eduardo Emilio Kalinec\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Paula (who asked the BBC not to use her full name) also experienced a moment of revelation about her father.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>When she was 14 he took her and her brother to a cafe, and told them he had been an undercover cop. Later she realised he had been a spy, infiltrating left-wing groups and identifying people to be seized by the regime.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;Since it clicked in my head that what I knew about the dictatorship had been done by my father, or that he worked for them, I&#8217;ve been feeling ashamed and guilty as if I were an accomplice,&#8221; says Paula.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;Now I have this knowledge and there&#8217;s nothing I can do. It&#8217;s like I&#8217;m keeping a secret I don&#8217;t want to keep.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>It took these daughters years to understand and come to terms with their family history, but recently they have felt the urge to speak out.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>They are part of a group of the &#8220;sons, daughters and relatives of the perpetrators of genocide&#8221;, as they call themselves. They publicly condemn their fathers and are often ostracised by their families as a result.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-2fffff-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 976w\" alt=\"Short presentational grey line\" width=\"624\" height=\"23\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda Kalinec, a psychologist and school teacher was born in 1980, in the middle of the junta&#8217;s battle against supporters of the left. Her memories of her policeman father mostly date from after this period &#8211; she remembers him cooking barbecues, taking his daughters to the sports club and on fishing trips.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>She and her three sisters all married young and weren&#8217;t interested in politics.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>The day after the phone call from her mum, she remembers, they went to visit her dad in prison.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;When we spoke to him, he just said &#8216;Don&#8217;t believe what they will say about me, it&#8217;s all a bunch of lies,'&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>He told the family he had nothing to apologise for, that he had been fighting a &#8220;war&#8221;, and that he was now being persecuted by &#8220;lefties&#8221; intent on revenge.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t understand a word,&#8221; says Anal\u00eda.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>For Anal\u00eda the dictatorship was a thing of the past, and for the first couple of years after her father&#8217;s arrest, she lived in denial.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I supported the mothers and grandmother of Plaza de Mayo who were campaigning for their disappeared loved ones,&#8221; she says. &#8220;All good, but my father had nothing to do with any of that. I still believed it must have been an error\u2026 It was when the trial started that I realised things were not quite as my father had been telling us.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/13873\/production\/_117678997_pic-2.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Anal\u00eda Kalinec with her family on a family trip in the 1980s\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda came face to face with her father&#8217;s past when she started to read the case files. Over 800 pages filled with stark accounts of the terror he had inflicted, in the voices of the survivors<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I read the descriptions of those concentration camps where the military kept the people they abducted. It was like a map and I had to place my dad in it, which was unbearable,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>The victims didn&#8217;t know Kalinec by his real name. In the clandestine prisons where he worked, he went by an alias, as most did to conceal their real identity &#8211; &#8220;Doctor K&#8221;.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I knew they called him that because he once told my grandma, and when I asked him where the nickname came from he told me it was because he was always very proper and looked like a lawyer, and here we address lawyers as doctors. But it may also be because he was &#8216;the doctor&#8217; in the torture chamber that they called &#8216;the operating theatre&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda finally confronted her father in his jail cell.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-9t9bpe-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/9C48\/production\/_117680004_976xarrest1982getty.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Raid in the streets of Buenos Aires during the military regime (1982)\" width=\"976\" height=\"669\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>GETTY IMAGES<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Police make an arrest in Buenos Aires, 1982<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;And when I did that, I found a very angry man who tried to justify the unjustifiable. And in so doing, he confirmed my worst suspicions. That he had personally taken part in it all. It was,&#8221; she pauses, searching for the right word, &#8220;mind-blowing. Totally mind-blowing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Having a loving relationship with the man, and many happy childhood memories made things harder, says Anal\u00eda.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;At first I needed to disassociate. I used to say, &#8216;Well, on one side there&#8217;s my dad and on the other side there&#8217;s the torturer.&#8217; I needed that, or else my head would have exploded. But then I realised that it is in fact the same person. It is always the same person.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Dozens of witnesses in the trials identified Eduardo Kalinec as a participant in interrogations and torture sessions in three different clandestine detention centres.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>They described him as a young man &#8211; he was then in his mid-20s &#8211; with a high-pitched voice, short and brawny, with a thick neck and a moustache.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>He was &#8220;feared inside&#8221; and &#8220;of a very cruel character&#8221;, according to court testimonies of those who survived. Most didn&#8217;t &#8211; a majority of prisoners remain &#8220;disappeared&#8221; to this day and are presumed murdered.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Ana Mar\u00eda Careaga was 16 years old and three months pregnant when she was taken. She remembers that &#8220;Doctor K&#8221; kicked her when he saw her in the bathroom area. On one occasion he got angry with her for not having revealed to her captors that she was pregnant. &#8220;Do you want me to open your legs and make you abort?&#8221; he yelled.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/FA27\/production\/_117693046_2db35c6c-5f13-453c-979e-e1a120d3f25f.jpg 976w\" alt=\"El Olimpo detention center, Flores neighbourhood, Buenos Aires\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>CONADEP<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>There were some 600 clandestine prisons across the country &#8211; this one in Buenos Aires was known as El Olimpo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Miguel D&#8217;Agostino also identified Kalinec as one of three men who tortured him for five days in a row with an electric prod in the so-called &#8220;operating theatre&#8221; of the secret prison where he was held for almost a year.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Delia Barrera was 22 when she was taken from her home in a raid &#8211; kidnapped at gunpoint by a group of men and taken to El Atl\u00e9tico, the secret prison where Kalinec was based at the time.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I hear voices around me, as I am blindfolded,&#8221; Barrera tells the BBC. &#8220;They get me naked and strap me to a metal bed frame. And they start with the electric shocks. They blame me for placing a bomb in a police station, which I hadn&#8217;t done, and they want names of fellow militants. It goes on and on\u2026&#8221; she remembers.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>She met Kalinec on one occasion during her 92-day detention when her blindfold was not very tight. She assumed &#8220;Doctor K&#8221; was a medical doctor &#8211; and says he did inform her she had broken ribs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I could peer at his face from underneath. It&#8217;s a face I could never forget. When, during the trial, the judge asked me if I could identify any of the accused, I said, &#8216;There he is, Doctor K.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-2fffff-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 976w\" alt=\"Short presentational grey line\" width=\"624\" height=\"23\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>The year-long trial that led to Kalinec&#8217;s life sentence in December 2010, was part of a historical reckoning that is still going on in Argentina, almost four decades after the dictatorship came to an end.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>More than 1,000 former military and police officers convicted of human rights abuses have received hefty sentences, and some 370 cases are still working their way through the Argentine judicial system.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/91DF\/production\/_110634373_16_credit_cij.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Kalinec during the trial\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>CIJ<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Kalinec during the trial<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>But not all those who took part in the state-organised repression are brought to justice. In many cases, there is simply not enough evidence to hold them accountable &#8211; as with Paula&#8217;s father.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I know what he did because he told me,&#8221; she says. &#8220;I know he was part of it because he told me. And he was full of pride, he felt like a hero.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Until this point, she had believed her father was a lawyer. She had never seen him in police uniform.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;He was in his 20s then and, for photos I had at home, he didn&#8217;t look the part of a policeman. He had long hair, wore trendy big-collared shirts\u2026 he looked like any young guy from the 1970s.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/11163\/production\/_117678996_pic-1.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Paula and her father\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>But in time Paula connected the dots, and worked out that he had been picking out people to be captured and taken away to one of the clandestine centres.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Just like Anal\u00eda, Paula then confronted him.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I told him, &#8216;You don&#8217;t torture people. I don&#8217;t care if they did something or not. Don&#8217;t torture people!&#8217; And I had this conversation many times over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Her father would reply that the authorities were tackling &#8220;terrorists&#8221; and that &#8220;the communists were coming&#8221;. Paula says she doesn&#8217;t know how much blood her father had on his hands, but he never showed repentance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;He was a necessary cog in the machine of terror. He said the crimes had to be committed &#8211; and he never called them crimes, he called them &#8216;actions&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/18693\/production\/_117678999_pic-5.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Paula and her father\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Ten years after making the discovery, once her mother had died, Paula cut all ties with her father.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>In late 2019 she heard he had been taken to hospital after a severe stroke and wondered whether she should go to visit him.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>She didn&#8217;t. And when he died she didn&#8217;t go to the funeral.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I thought it would be disrespectful to attend the funeral for the people who actually loved him. But also, there was a part of me that had already grieved the absence of my father in my life. So I didn&#8217;t really have the need.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-2fffff-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 976w\" alt=\"Short presentational grey line\" width=\"624\" height=\"23\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>A few years ago, Anal\u00eda and Paula found each other &#8211; and a number of other children of military and police officers who also condemned their fathers&#8217; actions.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>It didn&#8217;t happen by chance. It was triggered by a Supreme Court ruling in 2017, during the centre-right government of President Mauricio Macri, that could have led to the early release of hundreds of human rights abusers, Eduardo Kalinec among them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Half a million protesters took to the streets, demanding the decision be overturned &#8211; and it was.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;The fact that my dad is imprisoned speaks highly of Argentine society. I felt I needed to break the silence. I wanted to say, &#8216;Let&#8217;s be clear, there is no turning back,'&#8221; says Anal\u00eda. &#8220;We want to make sure our fathers pay for their crimes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-mybczj-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1582C\/production\/_117680188_d46f2afb-bba0-42d3-99fc-926aa0e36a43.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Liliana Furi\u00f3 and Anal\u00eda Kalinec in the National Day of Memory demonstration, 24 March 2019\" width=\"976\" height=\"600\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>VALERIA PERASSO<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Liliana Furi\u00f3 (left) co-founded Disobedient Stories, together with Anal\u00eda Kalinec<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda published her thoughts in a manifesto on Facebook. Other sons and daughters read it.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;And it all started from there\u2026 We got in touch, we met up. We said, &#8216;This is so hard to bear alone.&#8217; We decided to come together and take part in demonstrations. The first time there were four of us, all women, with such energy and enthusiasm.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>They called themselves Disobedient Stories, because they are breaking the family rule of silence.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Most long ago stopped seeing their fathers and many, like Anal\u00eda, have siblings who will no longer talk to them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I was so happy to find others like me, I knew I couldn&#8217;t be the only one!&#8221; says Paula. &#8220;They understood me in ways nobody else could.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-mybczj-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/1311C\/production\/_117680187_aa0b1fb0-f776-4f5e-8b81-a9b48d7c5811.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Marcha del d\u00eda de la memoria, 2019\" width=\"976\" height=\"600\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>VALERIA PERASSO<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Paula (centre) and Anal\u00eda on the Day of Memory march in 2019<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>She says she hadn&#8217;t been able to talk to anyone about her father, except her therapist, and that acquiring the ability to stand up and speak out after 23 years of silence was a tremendous release.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>The now 80-strong group &#8211; made up mostly of women &#8211; meets weekly. They eat together, discuss politics and their feelings and plan public appearances.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>One of their campaigns centres on the refusal of their fathers to confess to their crimes, and helping prosecutors to convict other guilty men.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I am still waiting for him to talk. I know my father has information about his victims,&#8221; says Anal\u00eda. &#8220;Unlike other officials, who are too old or senile, my dad is lucid and has a prodigious memory. And knowing that he chooses not to say, and that his complicit silence is still causing pain and damage, is something that really hurts me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Since their fathers won&#8217;t speak, the members of Disobedient Stories want the Argentine penal code to be amended to allow children to testify in court against parents in cases of crimes against humanity. Often the case against the men is a jigsaw that the children could help to put together with their family knowledge &#8211; for example, Anal\u00eda&#8217;s awareness that her father was known at work as &#8220;Doctor K&#8221;. Another member heard many details from his father about the practice of throwing people alive from helicopters into the ocean but has been unable to testify in court.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;Socially, speaking against your father is strongly condemned in this patriarchal society. Your father, your blood. Well, what if your father is a torturer or a rapist or a thief? You cannot say anything?&#8221; asks Anal\u00eda.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;People don&#8217;t even question that. Well, maybe it&#8217;s time we do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-2fffff-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/72FB\/production\/_112953492__90021446_test_grey_line_new-nc.png 976w\" alt=\"Short presentational grey line\" width=\"624\" height=\"23\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>In 2018, Disobedient Stories took to the streets for National Memory Day &#8211; 24 March, the anniversary of the military coup. Their multi-coloured banner read, &#8220;We are the relatives of the perpetrators of genocide.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Anal\u00eda says people gave them puzzled looks. A few burst into tears, though many more applauded.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;It was the first time that a group of relatives of the perpetrators were taking such public stance,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/17F3C\/production\/_117680189_ba6fb2eb-9d83-4f48-a31b-4374973d90a8.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Disobedient Stories collective taking part in a demonstration\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><span class=\"ssrcss-1ecljvk-StyledFigureCopyright e34k3c23\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">IMAGE COPYRIGHT<\/span>HISTORIAS DISOBEDIENTES<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Anal\u00eda (centre) came together with other relatives in the Disobedient Stories collective<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Yet not everyone is ready for their activism. The collective is an uncomfortable presence for some of the victims&#8217; relatives and survivors.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;These &#8216;disobedient&#8217; sons and daughters had plenty of opportunities to speak up &#8211; and they didn&#8217;t do it earlier, why is that?&#8221; questioned survivor Delia Barrera, when interviewed by the BBC in 2019.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>She said she didn&#8217;t trust them, particularly those who said they still loved their father, after everything he did.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;Tell me you don&#8217;t love him,&#8221; she said, &#8220;and maybe that&#8217;s a different story.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/92E4\/production\/_117540673_f68c5f7d-a199-46ba-9a8a-dcbdab415ea0.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Delia Barrera, survivor\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"ssrcss-1rnnz6t-StyledFigureCaption e34k3c21\"><span class=\"ssrcss-oyqyoe-VisuallyHidden e1y6uwnp0\">image caption<\/span>Delia Barrera has testified in several trials &#8211; she was 22 when kidnapped with her husband, Hugo, who remains &#8220;disappeared&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>For the sons and daughters of convicted criminals, it is often more complicated.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;Look, I ask myself that all the time, we always discuss it in the collective,&#8221; says Anal\u00eda. &#8220;How do you erase affection? How do you delete your good memories? How can you decide to love or not to love? I refuse to give up on this father that I once loved, there&#8217;s a part of me that wants to hold on to that. So I live with these contradictions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Some have gone further though, calling themselves &#8220;ex-daughters&#8221; or putting in a formal request to change their surname.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I think it is a very personal decision to make, but for me it wouldn&#8217;t change anything. I am not going to give my father the right to keep the surname. It is also MY surname, my family, my history&#8221;, says Anal\u00eda.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Paula agrees.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-18mjolk-ComponentWrapper e1xue1i80\" data-component=\"image-block\">\n<figure class=\"ssrcss-2y05cd-StyledFigure e34k3c20\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-kwaqyc-StyledFigureContainer e34k3c22\"><span class=\"ssrcss-1hq4gmv-Placeholder e16icw910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ssrcss-evoj7m-Image ee0ct7c0\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 240w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 320w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 480w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/624\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 624w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/976\/cpsprodpb\/0008\/production\/_117680000_pic-3-1.jpg 976w\" alt=\"Paula as a baby and her father\" width=\"976\" height=\"549\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;You took a lot of things from a lot of people,&#8221; she told her father, when he was alive. &#8220;You&#8217;re not taking my name. You tainted it. You smudged it. I&#8217;m going to clean it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>Since his death, she has taken a step back from the collective, but says her &#8220;ethical stance in relation to the dictatorship, and the role of my father in it, remains unchanged&#8221;.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p>&#8220;I still feel a responsibility to speak up and maybe wake up other people, both in Argentina and around the world, regardless of the relationship they may have with the perpetrator. So that fight won&#8217;t ever be over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p><i class=\"ssrcss-po6dm6-ItalicText e5tfeyi1\">Family photographs courtesy of Anal\u00eda Kalinec and Paula<\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ssrcss-uf6wea-RichTextComponentWrapper e1xue1i83\" data-component=\"text-block\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-3z08n3-RichTextContainer e5tfeyi2\">\n<p><i class=\"ssrcss-po6dm6-ItalicText e5tfeyi1\">Listen online to the documentary <\/i><a class=\"ssrcss-hiczm3-InlineLink e1no5rhv0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/w3ct0483\">My Father the Killer<\/a><i class=\"ssrcss-po6dm6-ItalicText e5tfeyi1\"> or <\/i><a class=\"ssrcss-hiczm3-InlineLink e1no5rhv0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/p080wqsg\">download the podcast<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<section class=\"ssrcss-kqym7f-SectionWrapper e1nh2i2l4\" data-component=\"tag-list\">\n<div class=\"ssrcss-1ig489z-StyledTagContainer ed0g1kj0\"><\/div>\n<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My Father, the Killer, Buenos Aires 1976-2021, BBC News, 25 March 2021 &nbsp; With so much going in the world, major stories and major anniversaries are missed as never before. 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