{"id":12292,"date":"2021-07-30T02:15:36","date_gmt":"2021-07-30T09:15:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/?p=12292"},"modified":"2021-08-05T06:25:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-05T13:25:06","slug":"issue-of-the-week-122","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/?p=12292","title":{"rendered":"Issue of the Week: Human Rights"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-12299\" src=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9-736x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"305\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9-736x1024.png 736w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9-108x150.png 108w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9-216x300.png 216w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9-768x1069.png 768w, https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/image-9.png 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 305px) 100vw, 305px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\"><em>German Experiment That Placed Foster Children with Pedophiles,<\/em> The New Yorker, July 26, 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">To stare pure evil in the face with all its delusional complexities, yet the stark totality of its lies when fully revealed, is always, for a mind with\u00a0any conscience, or even any consciousness of self-interest, a uniquely terrifying and stupifying experience. The sexual abuse of children is always all the above. When perpetrated and enabled by the very structures which are supposed to protect children, to enlighten progress and to represent society in a liberal democracy, it seems, quite literally, an impossibility. But then so is the lion&#8217;s share of it, perpetrated and enabled by parents and relatives and those close to them who have power and influence and credibility.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">We have entered an age where the abuse of hundreds of millions of children is becoming more and more exposed and more and more held to account. But still a long way to go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">How close we are as a species to the starting point of this reckoning is made clear by a stunning article in The New Yorker this week, a masterpiece by Rachel Avi<span class=\"BylineLinkLastLetterSpacing-goqtkQ hGTHGz link__last-letter-spacing\">v,\u00a0<\/span>that tells a story that is&#8211;impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Here it is:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/magazine\/2021\/07\/26\/the-german-experiment-that-placed-foster-children-with-pedophiles\">&#8220;The German Experiment That Placed Foster Children with Pedophiles&#8221;<\/a><em>,<\/em>\u00a0<span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-TwdDQ BaseText-fFHxRE BylinePreamble-ihmIcV hlNbBe isbmwi iNasoT byline__preamble\">By <\/span><span class=\"BylineNamesWrapper-daLOTm dunlNx\"><span class=\"BylineName-cLfBPm koNgXO byline__name\" data-testid=\"BylineName\">Rachel Avi<span class=\"BylineLinkLastLetterSpacing-goqtkQ hGTHGz link__last-letter-spacing\">v,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span>Letter From Berlin, The New Yorker, July 26, 2021 Issue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>With the approval of the government, a renowned sexologist ran a dangerous program. How could this happen?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In 2017, a German man who goes by the name Marco came across an article in a Berlin newspaper with a photograph of a professor he recognized from childhood. The first thing he noticed was the man\u2019s lips. They were thin, almost nonexistent, a trait that Marco had always found repellent. He was surprised to read that the professor, Helmut Kentler, had been one of the most influential sexologists in Germany. The article described a new research report that had investigated what was called the \u201cKentler experiment.\u201d Beginning in the late sixties, Kentler had placed neglected children in foster homes run by pedophiles. The experiment was authorized and financially supported by the Berlin Senate. In a report submitted to the Senate, in 1988, Kentler had described it as a \u201ccomplete success.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco had grown up in foster care, and his foster father had frequently taken him to Kentler\u2019s home. Now he was thirty-four, with a one-year-old daughter, and her meals and naps structured his days. After he read the article, he said, \u201cI just pushed it aside. I didn\u2019t react emotionally. I did what I do every day: nothing, really. I sat around in front of the computer.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"ConsumerMarketingUnitThemedWrapper-kknrtm gZsZUO consumer-marketing-unit consumer-marketing-unit--article-mid-content\">\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco looks like a movie star\u2014he is tanned, with a firm jaw, thick dark hair, and a long, symmetrical face. As an adult, he has cried only once. \u201cIf someone were to die in front of me, I would of course want to help them, but it wouldn\u2019t affect me emotionally,\u201d he told me. \u201cI have a wall, and emotions just hit against it.\u201d He lived with his girlfriend, a hairdresser, but they never discussed his childhood. He was unemployed. Once, he tried to work as a mailman, but after a few days he quit, because whenever a stranger made an expression that reminded him of his foster father, an engineer named Fritz Henkel, he had the sensation that he was not actually alive, that his heart had stopped beating, and that the color had drained from the world. When he tried to speak, it felt as if his voice didn\u2019t belong to him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Several months after reading the article, Marco looked up the number for Teresa Nentwig, a young political scientist at the University of G\u00f6ttingen Institute for Democracy Research, who had written the report on Kentler. He felt both curious and ashamed. When she answered the phone, he identified himself as \u201can affected person.\u201d He told her that his foster father had spoken with Kentler on the phone every week. In ways that Marco had never understood, Kentler, a psychologist and a professor of social education at the University of Hannover, had seemed deeply invested in his upbringing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Nentwig had assumed that Kentler\u2019s experiment ended in the nineteen-seventies. But Marco told her he had lived in his foster home until 2003, when he was twenty-one. \u201cI was totally shocked,\u201d she said. She remembers Marco saying several times, \u201cYou are the first person I\u2019ve told\u2014this is the first time I\u2019ve told my story.\u201d As a child, he\u2019d taken it for granted that the way he was treated was normal. \u201cSuch things happen,\u201d he told himself. \u201cThe world is like this: it\u2019s eat and be eaten.\u201d But now, he said, \u201cI realized the state has been watching.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A few weeks later, Marco phoned one of his foster brothers, whom he calls Sven. They had lived together in Henkel\u2019s home for thirteen years. He liked Sven, but felt little connection to him. They had never had a real conversation. He told Sven he\u2019d learned that they had been part of an experiment. But Sven seemed unable to process the information. \u201cAfter all those years, we had gotten out of the habit of thinking,\u201d Marco said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">As a young boy, Marco liked to pretend he was one of the Templars, an order of knights that protected pilgrims to the Holy Land. He was a lively child who occasionally wandered around his Berlin neighborhood unsupervised. At five, in 1988, he crossed the street alone and was hit by a car. He was not seriously injured, but the accident attracted the attention of the Sch\u00f6neberg youth-welfare office, which is run by the Berlin state government. Caseworkers at the office observed that Marco\u2019s mother seemed \u201cunable to give him the necessary emotional attention.\u201d She worked at a sausage stand, and was struggling to manage parenthood on her own. Marco\u2019s father, a Palestinian refugee, had divorced her. She sent Marco and his older brother to day care in dirty clothes, and left them there for eleven hours. Caseworkers recommended that Marco be placed in a foster home with a \u201cfamily-like atmosphere.\u201d One described him as an attractive boy who was wild but \u201cvery easy to influence.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco was assigned to live with Henkel, a forty-seven-year-old single man who supplemented his income as a foster father by repairing jukeboxes and other electronics. Marco was Henkel\u2019s eighth foster son in sixteen years. When Henkel began fostering children, in 1973, a teacher noticed that he was \u201calways looking for contact with boys.\u201d Six years later, a caseworker observed that Henkel appeared to be in a \u201chomosexual relationship\u201d with one of his foster sons. When a public prosecutor launched an investigation, Helmut Kentler, who called himself Henkel\u2019s \u201cpermanent adviser,\u201d intervened on Henkel\u2019s behalf\u2014a pattern that repeats throughout more than eight hundred pages of case files about Henkel\u2019s home. Kentler was a well-known scholar, the author of several books on sex education and parenting, and he was often quoted in Germany\u2019s leading newspapers and on its TV programs. The newspaper <em>Die Zeit<\/em> had described him as the \u201cnation\u2019s chief authority on questions of sexual education.\u201d On university letterhead, Kentler issued what he called an \u201cexpert opinion,\u201d explaining that he had come to know Henkel through a \u201cresearch project.\u201d He commended Henkel on his parenting skills and disparaged a psychologist who invaded the privacy of his home, making \u201cwild interpretations.\u201d Sometimes, Kentler wrote, an airplane is not a phallic symbol\u2014it is simply a plane. The criminal investigation was suspended.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco was impressed by Henkel\u2019s apartment. It had five bedrooms and was on the third floor of an old building on one of the main shopping streets of Friedenau, an upscale neighborhood popular among politicians and writers. Two other foster sons lived there, a sixteen-year-old and a twenty-four-year-old, neither of whom was particularly friendly to Marco. But he was delighted to discover an armoire in the hallway that held a cage with two rabbits that he could play with and feed. In a report to the youth-welfare office, Henkel noted that Marco was \u201cexcited about almost everything that was offered to him.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Every few months, Henkel drove nearly two hundred miles with his foster children to see Kentler in Hannover, where he taught. The visits were an opportunity for Kentler to observe the children: to \u201chear what they say about their past; their dreams and fears; to know their wishes and hopes, to see how they each develop, how they feel,\u201d Henkel wrote. In a photograph taken during one of their visits, Kentler wears a white button-up shirt with a pen in the pocket, and Marco sits at a dining-room table beside him, looking bored and dazed.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"grid--item body body__container article__body grid-layout__content\" data-journey-hook=\"client-content\">\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco had been living with Henkel for a year and a half when Sven moved in. The police had found him in a subway station in Berlin, sick with hepatitis. He was seven years old, begging for money, and he said that he had come from Romania. Noting that Sven had \u201clikely never experienced a positive parent-child relationship,\u201d the youth-welfare office searched for a foster home in Berlin. \u201cMr. Henkel seems to be ideally suited to this difficult task,\u201d doctors from a clinic at the Free University of Berlin wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The two boys took on different roles in their new family. Sven was the good son, docile and loving. Marco was more defiant, but at night, when Henkel came into his room asking to cuddle, or waited for him while he brushed his teeth before bed, he had to comply. \u201cI just accepted it out of loyalty, because I didn\u2019t know anything else,\u201d Marco told me. \u201cI didn\u2019t think what was happening was good, but I thought it was normal. I thought of it a little bit like food. People have different tastes in food, the way some people have different tastes in sexuality.\u201d If Sven\u2019s bedroom door was open and he wasn\u2019t there, Marco knew what was happening, but the two boys never talked about what Henkel did to them. \u201cIt was an absolutely taboo subject,\u201d Marco said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">One night, Marco took a knife from the kitchen and slept with it under his pillow. When Henkel approached his bed and discovered the blade, he withdrew quickly, called Helmut Kentler, then handed the phone to Marco. \u201cThere\u2019s a devil behind my wall,\u201d Marco tried to explain. Kentler had a calming, grandfatherly presence. He assured Marco that there was no such thing as devils, and Marco agreed to surrender the knife.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco\u2019s mother and brother were allowed to visit roughly once a month, but Henkel often cancelled the visits at the last minute, or cut them short, saying that they were disruptive. Afterward, Marco would sometimes urinate in his bed or lose focus in school, writing numbers and letters backward. \u201cIt was as if he wanted to say: there is no point in anything,\u201d Henkel wrote. Kentler warned the youth-welfare office that Marco\u2019s \u201ceducational successes are ruined by a few hours of being with his mother.\u201d Marco\u2019s father was not allowed to see him at all, because Henkel reported that Marco said that his dad had beaten him. Marco was so terrified of his father, Henkel said, that he suffered from \u201cfearful fantasies when he noticed people of Arab appearance on the street.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco\u2019s teachers recommended that he see a child therapist, who was supposed to meet with him for two hours a week. But the therapist said that Henkel was holding Marco \u201cprisoner\u201d\u2014Henkel always sat close by, in an adjacent room. Marco remembers that, once, after a session began without Henkel\u2019s realizing it, he barged into the room and hit the therapist in the face. When a school psychologist referred Sven for counselling, too, Henkel would not allow him to take any psychological tests, according to records. \u201cNot with me!\u201d he shouted. \u201cIf you all want to make a \u2018case\u2019 out of [Sven], then do it without me.\u201d (Sven seemed upset by the outburst, asking Henkel, \u201cDoes that mean you want to give me away?\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In a letter, Kentler advised the youth-welfare office that, if a psychological assessment had to be done, he would perform it. \u201cInsights beyond my findings are not to be expected,\u201d he wrote. He acknowledged that Henkel could appear \u201charsh and hurtful,\u201d but \u201cI ask you to consider that a man who deals with such seriously damaged children is not a \u2018simple person,\u2019\u00a0\u201d he wrote, in another letter. \u201cWhat Mr. Henkel needs from the authorities is trust and protection.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When Marco was nine, his mother petitioned a district judge in Berlin to allow her to spend more time with him. Marco\u2019s father told the youth-welfare office that he could not understand why Marco was growing up in a \u201cstrange family,\u201d deprived of an Arabic education. He also \u201cmade massive accusations against the foster father\u2019s behavior,\u201d a caseworker wrote. But Marco\u2019s mother had signed an agreement stating that she would \u201calways be guided by the best interests of my child,\u201d and that determination was made by the youth-welfare office.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A hearing was held in March, 1992, a month before Marco turned ten. The judge asked to speak privately with Marco, but Henkel stood directly outside the room and said, \u201cIf you are being threatened, call out!\u201d Marco sounded as if he had been coached. He told the judge that his foster father, whom he called Papa, loved him, and his birth family did not. When the judge asked if he still wanted his mother to visit, he responded, \u201cNot often.\u201d He said that once a year would be better, and insisted that \u201cPapa should be there.\u201d He explained that he was afraid of his biological father, and now that he was with Papa he was no longer scared. \u201cOnly sometimes at night,\u201d he added.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">After the hearing, Kentler sent a letter to the judge, saying, \u201cFor the best interests of the child, I consider it absolutely essential that contact with the family of origin\u2014including the mother\u2014be completely suspended for the next two years.\u201d Kentler also emphasized that Marco needed distance from the men in his family, because they set a bad example. He said that Marco\u2019s mood changed when he spoke about his father. Though Kentler had never met Marco\u2019s dad, he characterized him as authoritarian, abusive, and macho. He also disapproved of Marco\u2019s fifteen-year-old brother, who was six feet four and weighed two hundred and twenty-five pounds. The boy \u201cgives the (false) impression of strength and superiority,\u201d Kentler wrote, and was already molding himself in his father\u2019s image; he was \u201caddicted to being the big man.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kentler\u2019s career was framed by his belief in the damage wrought by dominant fathers. An early memory was of walking in the forest on a spring day and running to keep up with his father. \u201cI had only one wish: that he should take my hand and hold it in his,\u201d Kentler wrote in a parenting magazine in 1983. But his father, a lieutenant in the First World War, believed in a \u201crod and baton pedagogy,\u201d as Kentler put it. Kentler\u2019s parents followed the teachings of Daniel Gottlob Moritz Schreber, a best-selling German authority on child care who has been described as a \u201cspiritual precursor of Nazism.\u201d Schreber outlined principles of child rearing that would create a stronger race of men, ridding them of cowardice, laziness, and unwanted displays of vulnerability and desire. \u201cSuppress everything in the child,\u201d Schreber wrote, in 1858. \u201cEmotions must be suffocated in their seed right away.\u201d When Kentler misbehaved, his father threatened to buy a contraption invented by Schreber to promote children\u2019s posture and compliance: shoulder bands to prevent slouching; a belt that held their chest in place while they slept; an iron bar pressed to their collarbone, so they\u2019d sit up straight at the table. If Kentler talked out of turn, his father slammed his fist on the table and shouted, \u201cWhen the father talks, the children must be silent!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kentler was ten during Kristallnacht, in 1938, when Nazi Storm Troopers raided Jewish temples, stores, and houses. Kentler\u2019s family was living in D\u00fcsseldorf, and Kentler was awakened by the noise of shattering glass. He came out of his bedroom and saw his father in a nightdress, holding the phone. \u201cIn his loud, dominant voice, my father called for a police deployment because someone had broken into our building,\u201d Kentler wrote in \u201cBorrowed Fathers, Children Need Fathers,\u201d a 1989 book about parenthood. \u201cIt was a longer conversation, during which my father became ever quieter, and ultimately he timidly hung up the receiver, stood there like he had collapsed and quietly said to my mother, who had been standing next to him for some time: \u2018They\u2019re going after the Jews!\u2019\u00a0\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Soon, the doorbell rang. A Jewish family\u2014a mother, father, and three children\u2014who lived in the apartment below stood at the door. Their apartment had been destroyed, and they asked if they could spend the night with the Kentlers. \u201cNo, that will really not be possible here,\u201d Kentler\u2019s father said. He shut the door. Kentler glimpsed his father\u2019s nightshirt climbing just above his knee, revealing his soft naked legs. \u201cMy whole father suddenly seemed laughable to me,\u201d he wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Shortly afterward, Kentler\u2019s father was called back to active duty. He rose to the rank of colonel, and moved his family to Berlin, where he worked at the High Command of the army of Nazi Germany. \u201cMy father\u2019s authority was never based on his own accomplishment, but on the large institutions in which he snuck into, that rubbed off on him,\u201d Kentler wrote. He was seventeen when the Nazis were defeated and his father came home, \u201ca broken man,\u201d Kentler wrote. \u201cI never again obeyed him and I felt terribly alone.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The postwar years in West Germany were marked by an intense preoccupation with sexual propriety, as if decorum could solve the nation\u2019s moral crisis and cleanse it of guilt. \u201cOne\u2019s own offspring did penance for Auschwitz,\u201d the German poet Olav M\u00fcnzberg wrote, \u201cwith ethics and morality forcefully jammed into them.\u201d Women\u2019s reproductive rights were severely restricted, and the policing of homosexual encounters, a hallmark of Nazism, persisted; in the two decades after the war, roughly a hundred thousand men were prosecuted for this crime. Kentler was attracted to men and felt as if he \u201calways had one leg in prison,\u201d because of the risks involved in consummating his desires. He found solace in the book \u201c<a class=\"external-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Corydon-Novel-Andr%C3%A9-Gide\/dp\/1497679001?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Corydon-Novel-Andr%C3%A9-Gide\/dp\/1497679001&quot;}\" data-orig-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Corydon-Novel-Andr%C3%A9-Gide\/dp\/1497679001?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" data-ml-id=\"0\" data-ml=\"true\" data-xid=\"fr1627902286388fbc\">Corydon<\/a>,\u201d by Andr\u00e9 Gide, a series of Socratic dialogues about the naturalness of queer love. \u201cThis book took away my fear of being a failure and of being rejected, of being a negative biological variant,\u201d he wrote in a 1985 essay called \u201cOur Homosexuality.\u201d But nothing could be done to remedy his relationship with his parents. \u201cThey no longer loved me,\u201d he wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In 1960, Kentler got a degree in psychology, a field that allowed him to be \u201can engineer in the realm of the\u00a0.\u00a0.\u00a0. manipulatable soul,\u201d he said at a lecture. He became involved in the student movement, and at a meeting of the Republican Club, a group established by left-wing intellectuals, he publicly identified himself as gay for the first time. Not long afterward, he wrote, he decided to turn \u201cmy passions into a profession (which is also good for the passions: they are controlled).\u201d He earned a doctorate in social education from the University of Hannover, publishing his dissertation, a guidebook called \u201cParents Learn Sex Education,\u201d in 1975. He was inspired by the Marxist psychoanalyst <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/magazine\/2011\/09\/19\/novelty-acts\">Wilhelm Reich<\/a>, who had argued that the free flow of sexual energy was essential to building a new kind of society. Kentler\u2019s dissertation urged parents to teach their children that they should never be ashamed of their desires. \u201cOnce the first feelings of shame exist, they multiply easily and expand into all areas of life,\u201d he wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Like many of his contemporaries, Kentler came to believe that sexual repression was key to understanding the Fascist consciousness. In 1977, the sociologist Klaus Theweleit published \u201c<a class=\"external-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Male-Fantasies-Vol-History-Literature\/dp\/0816614490?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Male-Fantasies-Vol-History-Literature\/dp\/0816614490&quot;}\" data-orig-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Male-Fantasies-Vol-History-Literature\/dp\/0816614490?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" data-ml-id=\"1\" data-ml=\"true\" data-xid=\"fr1627902286388edf\">Male Fantasies<\/a>,\u201d a two-volume book that drew on the diaries of German paramilitary fighters and concluded that their inhibited drives\u2014along with a fear of anything gooey, gushing, or smelly\u2014had been channelled into a new outlet: destruction. When Kentler read \u201cMale Fantasies,\u201d he could see Schreber, the child-care author whose principles his parents had followed, \u201cat work everywhere,\u201d he wrote. Kentler argued that ideas like Schreber\u2019s (he had been so widely read that one book went through forty editions) had poisoned three generations of Germans, creating \u201cauthoritarian personalities who have to identify with a \u2018great man\u2019 around them to feel great themselves.\u201d Kentler\u2019s goal was to develop a child-rearing philosophy for a new kind of German man. Sexual liberation, he wrote, was the best way to \u201cprevent another Auschwitz.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The trials of twenty-two former Auschwitz officers had revealed a common personality type: ordinary, conservative, sexually inhibited, and preoccupied with bourgeois morality. \u201cI do think that in a society that was more free about sexuality, Auschwitz could not have happened,\u201d the German legal scholar Herbert J\u00e4ger said. Sexual emancipation was integral to student movements throughout Western Europe, but the pleas were more pitched in Germany, where the memory of genocide had become inextricably\u2014if not entirely accurately\u2014linked with sexual primness. In \u201c<a class=\"external-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sex-after-Fascism-Morality-Twentieth-Century\/dp\/0691130396?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sex-after-Fascism-Morality-Twentieth-Century\/dp\/0691130396&quot;}\" data-orig-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sex-after-Fascism-Morality-Twentieth-Century\/dp\/0691130396?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" data-ml-id=\"2\" data-ml=\"true\" data-xid=\"fr1627902286388jeb\">Sex After Fascism<\/a>,\u201d the historian Dagmar Herzog describes how, in Germany, conflicts over sexual mores became \u201can important site for managing the memory of Nazism.\u201d But, she adds, it was also a way \u201cto redirect moral debate away from the problem of complicity in mass murder and toward a narrowed conception of morality as solely concerned with sex.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"inline-recirc-wrapper inline-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monitor-anchor\" data-attr-viewport-monitor=\"inline-recirc\" data-event-boundary=\"click\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;pattern&quot;:&quot;InlineRecirc&quot;}\" data-include-experiments=\"true\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Suddenly, it seemed as if all relationship structures could\u2014and must\u2014be reconfigured, if there was any hope of producing a generation less damaged than the previous one. In the late sixties, educators in more than thirty German cities and towns began establishing experimental day-care centers, where children were encouraged to be naked and to explore one another\u2019s bodies. \u201cThere is no question that they were trying (in a desperate sort of neo-Rousseauian authoritarian antiauthoritarianism) to remake German\/human nature,\u201d Herzog writes. Kentler inserted himself into a movement that was urgently working to undo the sexual legacy of Fascism but struggling to differentiate among various taboos. In 1976, the magazine <em>Das Blatt<\/em>argued that forbidden sexual desire, such as that for children, was the \u201crevolutionary event that turns our everyday life on its head, that lets feelings break out and that shatters the basis of our thinking.\u201d A few years later, Germany\u2019s newly established Green Party, which brought together antiwar protesters, environmental activists, and veterans of the student movement, tried to address the \u201coppression of children\u2019s sexuality.\u201d Members of the Party advocated abolishing the age of consent for sex between children and adults.<\/span><\/div>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In this climate\u2014a psychoanalyst described it as one of \u201cdenial and manic \u2018self-reparation\u2019\u00a0\u201d\u2014Kentler was a star. He was asked to lead the department of social education at the Pedagogical Center, an international research institute in Berlin whose planning committee included Willy Brandt, who became the Chancellor of Germany (and won the Nobel Peace Prize), and James\u00a0B. Conant, the first U.S. Ambassador to West Germany and a president of Harvard. Funded and supervised by the Berlin Senate, the center was established, in 1965, to make Berlin an international leader in reforming educational practices. Kentler worked on the problem of runaways, heroin addicts, and young prostitutes, many of whom gathered in the archways of the Zoo Station, the main transportation hub in West Berlin. The milieu was memorialized in \u201c<a class=\"external-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Christiane-F-Natja-Brunckhorst\/dp\/B00005KH2B?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Christiane-F-Natja-Brunckhorst\/dp\/B00005KH2B&quot;}\" data-orig-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Christiane-F-Natja-Brunckhorst\/dp\/B00005KH2B?ots=1&amp;tag=thneyo0f-20&amp;linkCode=w50\" data-ml-id=\"3\" data-ml=\"true\" data-xid=\"fr1627902286388fdd\">Christiane F.<\/a>,\u201d an iconic drug movie of the eighties, about teen-agers, prematurely aware of the emptiness of modern society, self-destructing, set to a soundtrack by David Bowie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kentler befriended a thirteen-year-old named Ulrich, whom he described as \u201cone of the most sought-after prostitutes in the station scene.\u201d When Kentler asked Ulrich where he wanted to stay at night, Ulrich told him about a man he called Mother Winter, who fed boys from the Zoo Station and did their laundry. In exchange, they slept with him. \u201cI said to myself: if the prostitutes call this man \u2018mother,\u2019 he can\u2019t be bad,\u201d Kentler wrote. Later, he noted that \u201cUlrich\u2019s advantage was that he was handsome and that he enjoyed sex; so he could give something back to pedophile men who looked after him.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kentler formalized Ulrich\u2019s arrangement. \u201cI managed to get the Senate officer responsible to approve it,\u201d he wrote in \u201cBorrowed Fathers, Children Need Fathers.\u201d Kentler found several other pedophiles who lived nearby, and he helped them set up foster homes, too. At the time, the Berlin Senate, which governs the city\u2014one of sixteen states in the country\u2014was eager to find new solutions to the \u201clife problems of our society,\u201d in order to \u201cconfirm and maintain Berlin\u2019s reputation as an outpost of freedom and humanity,\u201d Kentler wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In 1981, Kentler was invited to the German parliament to speak about why homosexuality should be decriminalized\u2014it didn\u2019t happen for thirteen more years\u2014but he strayed, unprompted, into a discussion of his experiment. \u201cWe looked after and advised these relationships very intensively,\u201d he said. He held consultations with the foster fathers and their sons, many of whom had been so neglected that they had never learned to read or write. \u201cThese people only put up with these feeble-minded boys because they were in love with them,\u201d he told the lawmakers. His summary did not seem to provoke concerns. Perhaps the politicians were receptive because the project seemed to be the opposite of the Nazis\u2019 reproductive experiments, with their rigid emphasis on propagating certain kinds of families, or perhaps they were unconcerned because, in their opinion, the boys were already lost. In the sixties and seventies, the political \u00e9lite were suddenly taking an interest in the lower class, but their capacity for identification was apparently limited.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"grid--item grid-layout__aside\">\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">If there were ever files in the city\u2019s archives documenting how Kentler\u2019s project came to be approved\u2014or how, exactly, he located the men who served as foster fathers\u2014they have been lost or destroyed. When Kentler publicly discussed his experiment, he offered details about only three foster homes. But, in a 2020 report commissioned by the Berlin Senate, scholars at the University of Hildesheim concluded that \u201cthe Senate also ran foster homes or shared flats for young Berliners with pedophile men in other parts of West Germany.\u201d The fifty-eight-page report was preliminary and vague; the authors said there were about a thousand unsorted files in the basement of a government building that they had been unable to read. No names were revealed, but the authors wrote that \u201cthese foster homes were run by sometimes powerful men who lived alone and who were given this power by academia, research institutions and other pedagogical environments that accepted, supported or even lived out pedophile stances.\u201d The report concluded that some \u201csenate actors\u201d had been \u201cpart of this network,\u201d while others had merely tolerated the foster homes \u201cbecause \u2018icons\u2019 of educational reform policies supported such arrangements.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco remembers Kentler and his foster father talking for hours on the phone about politics. The intensity of their conversations surprised him, because Henkel was laconic at home, rarely speaking in full sentences. Marco and Sven didn\u2019t talk to each other, either. Marco spent all of his free time in his room, on an Amiga computer, playing SimCity and Mega-Lo-Mania. Both boys kept their doors closed. Once, when the neighbors played loud music, breaking the silence in their apartment, Henkel told the boys that he wanted to drill holes in two microwave ovens and then aim the radioactive waves toward each other, at just the right angle, to give the neighbors a heart attack.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco\u2019s mother lost her plea for more access to her son. She was still allowed visits every few weeks at the youth-welfare office, but the meetings went increasingly badly. During the first visit after the court hearing, Marco told his mother that he didn\u2019t want to see her, because she didn\u2019t get along with his foster father. \u201cWhile he was saying this, he did not make eye contact with his mother,\u201d a social worker wrote. At the next visit, three weeks later, he refused to accept his mother\u2019s gift\u2014pens and a pad of paper\u2014or to answer her questions. He repeatedly asked to leave, until his mother reluctantly agreed. She was \u201cvisibly shaken and cried,\u201d the social worker wrote. \u201cShe no longer knows what to do.\u201d The next day, Henkel called the youth-welfare office and said that he would support Marco \u201cin demonstrating his rejection of his mother.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A year and a half later, Marco\u2019s father informed the youth-welfare office that he was moving to Syria and wanted to say goodbye to his son. There is no record of anyone responding. Marco\u2019s opinion of his parents became overlaid with the insults he\u2019d heard from Henkel and Kentler. He imagined his mother as a lazy woman who spent her days eating sausages, his father as a violent patriarch. It wasn\u2019t until two decades later that he grasped that his parents had fought to have a relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Some nights, when Marco was eating dinner with Sven and Henkel, he would have the sensation that he was among strangers. \u201cWho are you people?\u201d he asked once. Henkel responded, \u201cIt\u2019s me\u2014your father.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When Marco was eleven years old, a new foster son, Marcel Kramer, moved in. Kramer was a small boy with dimples, crooked teeth, and a sweet, open smile. He was half a year younger than Marco and had spastic quadriplegia, a congenital condition that left him unable to walk, talk, or eat on his own. Marco and Sven became Kramer\u2019s caretakers, feeding him strawberry-flavored milk with a spoon and removing mucus from his lungs with a suction hose. When they went to Henkel\u2019s house in Brandenburg, west of Berlin, Marco pushed Kramer for hours on a tire swing. Kramer was the first person in years for whom Marco had felt love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At school, Marco had no close relationships. Henkel encouraged him to misbehave, rewarding him with computer games if he spat, talked out of turn, or overturned chairs. He skipped class and rarely did his homework. He ended up switching schools seven times, which, he now believes, was Henkel\u2019s plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">For years, Marco tolerated Henkel, but, as he began going through puberty, he said, \u201cI started to hate him.\u201d He spent an hour each day lifting weights, so that he would be strong enough to defend himself. One night, when Henkel tried to fondle him, Marco hit his hand. Henkel seemed startled but didn\u2019t say anything. He just walked away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Henkel stopped trying to sexually molest Marco, but he became punitive. At night, he locked the door to the kitchen so that Marco couldn\u2019t eat. (\u201cHis greed when eating was noticeable,\u201d Henkel once wrote.) He also hit Marco. \u201cGo on, let off some steam,\u201d Marco sometimes said, taunting Henkel. \u201cHe said he wasn\u2019t hitting me\u2014he was hitting the devil inside of me,\u201d Marco told me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When Marco turned eighteen, he was legally free to leave Henkel\u2019s home, but it didn\u2019t occur to him to move out. \u201cIt\u2019s very hard to describe, but I was never raised to think critically about anything,\u201d he said. \u201cI had an empty mind.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">One day, Kramer developed the flu. In the course of forty-eight hours, his breathing became increasingly labored. For years, Marco had checked on Kramer several times each night, to make sure that he was breathing. Now he was so worried that he lay in bed beside him. Henkel had always resisted calling doctors for the boys. By the time he gave in, Kramer could not be resuscitated. \u201cIt happened in front of my eyes,\u201d Marco said. \u201cI was looking into his eyes when he died.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The foster-care files contain only a brief note documenting Kramer\u2019s death. \u201cCall from Mr. Henkel, who says that Marcel died unexpectedly last night,\u201d an employee at the youth-welfare office wrote, in September, 2001. \u201cPreviously there were no signs of an infection.\u201d A subsequent note says that Henkel, who was sixty, was looking to take in another child.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">After Teresa Nentwig\u2019s report on Kentler, in 2016, she planned to write her habilitation thesis, a requirement for a career in academia, on Kentler\u2019s life and work. But there were many setbacks. Relevant files in the city archives of Berlin were missing, unsorted, or sealed. Friends and colleagues of Kentler, who had died in 2008, told Nentwig that they didn\u2019t want to talk. \u201cSome said that Kentler is a very good man and he has done only things which are good,\u201d Nentwig told me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Nentwig gives the impression of being a methodical and undramatic scholar, the type who never misses a deadline. In the summer of 2020, when we first spoke, she told me, \u201cI have no future in the university, because it is very hard to have success with this sort of subject. I am criticizing the academic world.\u201d I assumed that, as ambitious people tend to do, she was motivating herself with a fear of worst-case scenarios. But the next time I spoke with her, this spring, she had taken a job with a regional State Office for the Protection of the Constitution, a German intelligence agency that monitors anti-democratic threats. Her university contract had not been renewed, and she blamed the premature end of her academic career in part on her decision to research Kentler. \u201cI\u2019m a political scientist,\u201d she said, \u201cand people were always asking, \u2018What is political about this topic?\u2019\u00a0\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Nentwig and her former university are now splitting the cost, some six thousand euros, for a German academic press to publish what would have been her thesis. In the book, which comes out in September, she reveals that Kentler, the single father of three adopted sons and several foster children, appeared to be conducting his own, informal version of the experiment that the Berlin Senate had authorized. Karin D\u00e9sirat, the co-author of a book called \u201cSex\u2014Lust and Life,\u201d told Nentwig that two of Kentler\u2019s foster sons had come to her for therapy and divulged that Kentler had sexually abused them. D\u00e9sirat \u201cowed a lot to Kentler,\u201d she said\u2014he had helped her get her first teaching position\u2014and she did not want to get involved. She referred the boys to another therapist. The boys preferred to keep their abuse private, she said, because they \u201cdidn\u2019t want to lose the positives of Kentler\u2019s care\u2014that they had enough to eat and that they were taken care of and things like that.\u201d Kentler\u2019s experiment seemed to rest on the idea that some children are fundamentally second class, their outlook so compromised that any kind of love is a gift, a proposition that his colleagues apparently accepted, too. (D\u00e9sirat said that she eventually broke off contact with Kentler, concluding that his behavior had been \u201ccreepy.\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Gunter Schmidt, a former president of the International Academy of Sex Research, which attracts the field\u2019s leading researchers, was friends with Kentler for more than twenty years. \u201cI honestly had respect for it,\u201d he told Nentwig of the experiment. \u201cBecause I thought, These are really young people who are in the worst situation. They probably have a long history at home, they had miserable childhoods and someone is looking after them. And if Kentler is there it\u2019ll be fine.\u201d He added, \u201cAnd the Berlin Senate is also there.\u201d When Kentler was fifty-seven, he wrote Schmidt a letter explaining why he was aging happily, rather than becoming lonely and resigned: he and his twenty-six-year-old son were \u201cpart of a very fulfilling\u00a0love story\u201d that had lasted thirteen years and still felt fresh. To understand his state of mind, Kentler wrote, his friend should know his secret.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">For much of his career, Kentler spoke of pedophiles as benefactors. They offered neglected children \u201ca possibility of therapy,\u201d he told <em>Der Spiegel<\/em>, in 1980. When the Berlin Senate commissioned him to prepare an expert report on the subject of \u201cHomosexuals as caregivers and educators,\u201d in 1988, he explained that there was no need to worry that children would be harmed by sexual contact with caretakers, as long as the interaction was not \u201cforced.\u201d The consequences can be \u201cvery positive, especially when the sexual relationship can be characterized as mutual love,\u201d he wrote.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">But in 1991 he seemed to rethink his opinion, after his youngest adopted son, the one he praised in the letter to Schmidt, committed suicide. Then he read the paper \u201cConfusion of the Tongues Between Adults and the Child (The Language of Tenderness and of Passion),\u201d by S\u00e1ndor Ferenczi, a Hungarian psychoanalyst and a student of Freud. The paper describes how sexualized relationships between adults and children are always asymmetrical, exploitative, and destructive. Ferenczi warns that to give children \u201c<em>more love<\/em> or love of a <em>different kind<\/em>\u201d than they seek \u201cwill have just as pathogenic consequences as <em>denying<\/em> <em>them<\/em> love.\u201d Children\u2019s \u201cpersonalities are not sufficiently consolidated in order to be able to protest,\u201d he writes. They will \u201csubordinate themselves like automata.\u201d They become oblivious of their own needs and \u201cidentify themselves with the aggressor.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">In an interview with a German historian in 1992, Kentler spoke of his grief for his adopted son and said, \u201cUnfortunately I only read the Ferenczi essay after his death.\u201d He did not confess to abusing his son; instead, he said that the boy had been sexually abused by his birth mother. \u201cHe hung himself because of that,\u201d he told the historian. \u201cI\u2019ve experienced it in the biggest way, in a very close way, and certainly I\u2019m partly to blame.\u201d He regretted that, until the Ferenczi paper, he had not read anything about the emotional aftermath of sexual abuse and had not known how to help his son process the trauma. He didn\u2019t understand that a child recovering from sexual abuse feels split, as Ferenczi describes it: he is \u201cinnocent and culpable at the same time\u2014and his confidence in the testimony of his own senses is broken.\u201d \u201cI was too stupid,\u201d Kentler said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">By the late nineties, Kentler had stopped seeing Henkel\u2019s foster sons, or involving himself in their upbringing. In what was likely his last recorded public statement about pedophilia, in an interview in 1999, he referred to it as a \u201csexual disorder,\u201d and alluded to the impossibility of an adult and a child sharing an understanding of sexual contact. The problem, he said, is that the adult will always have \u201cthe monopoly on definition.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When I first began corresponding with Marco, in the summer of 2020, our communication was mediated by a man named Christoph Schweer, who referred to himself as Marco\u2019s \u201cfriend.\u201d Initially, I assumed that he was Marco\u2019s lawyer. Then I looked him up online and saw that he had received a Ph.D. in philosophy, publishing a dissertation called \u201cHomesickness, Heroes, Cheerfulness: Nietzsche\u2019s Path to Becoming a Superhero.\u201d He worked for the Alternative for Germany (AfD), Germany\u2019s right-wing party, as an adviser\u00a0for education and cultural policy. The Party was recently investigated by Germany\u2019s domestic-intelligence agency for undermining democracy by, among other things, minimizing the crimes of the Nazis. The Party\u2019s co-leader has called the Nazi era \u201cjust a speck of bird poop in more than 1,000 years of successful German history.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Last August, Marco, Schweer, and Thomas Rogers, a Berlin journalist, who also works as a translator, met at a hotel attached to Berlin\u2019s international airport, the only place we could come up with that would be sufficiently private. I spoke with them via Zoom. Marco and Schweer sat in chairs beside the bed, and they did not appear to have a particularly familiar rapport. Marco wore a flowery button-up Hawaiian shirt and had not shaved in a few days. Schweer, dressed for the office, had a prim, businesslike manner. Like an agent helping his celebrity client, he seemed a bit bored by our conversation but occasionally chimed in, prompting Marco to share memorable details.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u201cWhen you first saw him you thought, What a crooked mouth he has,\u201d Schweer offered, referring to Henkel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u201cHe had no lips,\u201d Marco clarified. He explained that Kentler, too, had this trait. Schweer demonstrated by pressing his mouth together, so that only a sliver of his bottom and upper lip were visible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u201cDo you know people who have no lips?\u201d Marco said. \u201cThey are always egotistical and mean\u2014I noticed that.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Schweer first contacted Marco in early 2018, after reading an article in <em>Der Spiegel<\/em> about Kentler\u2019s experiment, in which Marco said that he\u2019d been let down by the Berlin Senate. After the publication of Nentwig\u2019s report, Marco wrote to the Senate asking for more information about what had happened to him, but he felt that the Senate was insufficiently responsive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Schweer had \u201coffered help from the AfD,\u201d Marco told me. \u201cI immediately said, \u2018Not for political purposes, only because I want help.\u2019\u00a0\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">From the perspective of an AfD politician, Marco\u2019s life story was expedient, a tale about the ways in which the German left had got sexual politics wrong. At meetings of the German parliament, members of the AfD (which won more than twelve per cent of the vote in the last national election, becoming Germany\u2019s third-largest party) rallied around the Kentler case as a way of forcing left-wing politicians to address history that did not reflect well on their parties, but also as a barely disguised vehicle for impugning homosexuality. An advocacy group affiliated with the AfD held \u201cStop Kentler\u2019s sex education\u201d rallies, to protest the way that sexuality is currently taught in German schools. \u201cKentler\u2019s criminal pedophile spirit lives on unbroken in today\u2019s sex education,\u201d a brochure printed by the organization explained.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">History seemed to be looping back on itself. Right-wing politicians were calling for a return to the kind of \u201cterribly dangerous upbringing\u201d against which Kentler had rebelled. In its party manifesto, the AfD states that it is committed to the \u201ctraditional family as a guiding principle,\u201d an idea that it associates with the maintenance of Germany\u2019s cultural identity and power. To counteract the influx of immigrants to Germany, \u201cthe only mid- and longterm solution,\u201d the AfD program says, \u201cis to attain a higher birth rate by the native population.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At a hearing in February, 2018, an AfD representative, Thorsten Wei\u00df, complained that the Senate had not taken responsibility for Kentler\u2019s crimes. \u201cThis is a case of political importance, which also requires political action,\u201d he said. \u201cThe Senate is double-crossing the victims, and that is a scandal.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At another hearing, seven months later, Wei\u00df criticized the Senate for being slow to gather more information about Kentler\u2019s experiment. \u201cWe will not allow government-sponsored pederasty to be swept under the rug,\u201d he said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Two politicians from the Green Party, which has championed the rights of sexual minorities, accused the AfD of manipulating the victims. \u201cWhat the AfD is trying to do, to instrumentalize this crime for its own purposes, is unacceptable,\u201d a representative said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Schweer, the AfD adviser, tried to find a lawyer who could advocate for Marco in a civil lawsuit. \u201cI stand up for a friend, the victim of the so-called Kentler experiment,\u201d he wrote in an e-mail to a large Berlin law firm. Marco had already filed a criminal complaint, but the investigation was limited because Henkel had died in 2015. The lead caseworker, who retired after working for the office for more than forty years, exercised his right to remain silent when the police contacted him. The public prosecutor, Norbert Winkler, concluded that Henkel engaged in \u201cserious sexual assaults including regular anal intercourse,\u201d but he could not find evidence that anyone at the office was complicit. The dilemma, he told me, was that whenever suspicions arose the employees at the office \u201crelied on the claims from Mr. Kentler, who was at the time a very renowned person.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco and Sven tried to file civil lawsuits against the state of Berlin and the Tempelhof-Sch\u00f6neberg district, the location of the youth-welfare office, for breach of official duties. But, under civil law, too much time had passed. The AfD asked an expert to analyze whether the statute of limitations had to apply to this case. Berlin\u2019s education senator, Sandra Scheeres, a member of the Social Democratic Party, wanted to see if Marco and Sven would accept a compensation package rather than pursue a lawsuit that seemed doomed. She believed that the AfD was giving them bad advice, unnecessarily prolonging their attempt to get money. She told me, \u201cI found it quite strange how the AfD worked with the victims\u2014how close their relationship was, and that they gave legal advice to them. Of course, it is O.K. if the AfD draws attention to injustices, but what happened here was uncommon. I\u2019ve never experienced something like it.\u201d (Wei\u00df, the AfD representative, told me, \u201cI would have been surprised if she had said anything nice about us.\u201d He believes there is still a pedophile network in Germany, and that those connected to it \u201cuse their political influence to make sure that the network remains under the radar.\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco went to visit one of Henkel\u2019s foster sons from the \u201cfirst generation,\u201d as he put it, to see if he wanted to join his and Sven\u2019s legal efforts. The son, whom I\u2019ll call Samir, lived in Henkel\u2019s house in Brandenburg, where the boys had spent summer vacations. The house, which had only one room, was made from beige bricks and seemed to have been assembled too casually\u2014uneven globs of mortar filled each crack. In photographs from the nineties, the place is a mess: a plastic bag and half-eaten bread lie on the table; outside the house, an old toaster oven, with a badminton birdie lying next to it, rests on a decaying dresser.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Samir, who is fifty-seven and half Algerian, had not had contact with his birth family for more than forty years. He had changed his last name to Henkel, and taken on a new German first name as well. His half sister, who lives in Algeria, told me that she and her sister had tried many times to get in touch with him, to no avail. He was the foster son whose interactions with Henkel sparked a criminal investigation in 1979, when he was fifteen. At the time, a psychologist had given Samir a personality test, and Samir had drawn himself as a fruit tree in winter that \u201clacks all contact to the nourishing earth.\u201d The psychologist interviewed Henkel, too, and observed that he struggled to hold back his \u201cenormous aggressive impulses\u201d and, through his foster sons, tried to \u201cmake up for something that he missed in his own past.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco drove to Henkel\u2019s old property and walked toward the house. Five-foot hedges now surrounded it. The windows were covered with blankets. Marco said, \u201cI wanted to offer him the opportunity to clear things up like I had with Sven, but when I saw that\u2014no, no, no.\u201d Another foster brother, the first to move into Henkel\u2019s home, lived a few miles away, but Marco decided there was no use visiting him, either. He walked back to his car and drove home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Winkler, the prosecutor, had sent investigators to Samir\u2019s home, and he described it as a \u201cgarbage heap.\u201d There was no running water or electricity. There was barely even clear space to walk. Yet one corner of the house was tidy and purposeful. It had been turned into a kind of altar. An urn with Henkel\u2019s ashes was surrounded by fresh flowers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Henkel had run his foster home for thirty years. When he finally shut it down, in 2003\u2014he hadn\u2019t been assigned a new foster child\u2014Marco was twenty-one. He had nowhere to live. He spent three nights sleeping on benches in the park. With the help of a charity that assists homeless youths, he eventually moved into a subsidized apartment. He sometimes stole from grocery stores. \u201cI didn\u2019t know how the world functioned,\u201d he told me. \u201cI didn\u2019t even know that you need to pay for the electricity that comes out of a socket.\u201d He woke up several times in the middle of the night, a habit from his time caring for Marcel Kramer. But, instead of going into his foster brother\u2019s room, he checked his own body to see, he said, \u201cif everything is still where it should be and that I still exist.\u201d He spent so much time by himself that he had trouble constructing sentences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Sven lived alone in a small apartment in Berlin, too, but, unlike Marco, he stayed in touch with Henkel. \u201cI always thought I owed the man something,\u201d he told <em>Der Spiegel<\/em>, in 2017. Marco and Sven lived as they had as adolescents: they spent the day on the computer or watching TV, rarely speaking to anyone. Sven, who has experienced periods of severe depression since he was a child, still lives in what he called a \u201cfortress of solitude,\u201d and he did not want to talk about his past. \u201cI don\u2019t have any more strength,\u201d he told me. \u201cBut I can assure you that everything my brother told you about our time in the foster home is one to one\u2014the truth.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco had also existed in a kind of hibernation. But, after five years, he felt as if he were becoming a \u201cmonster,\u201d he said. \u201cIt didn\u2019t go quite toward criminal actions, but there was a destructiveness, a lack of empathy.\u201d When he was twenty-six, he was on a train in Berlin and noticed three men staring at him. Without making a conscious decision, Marco found himself beating them up. \u201cI should have said, \u2018Hey, what are you looking at?\u2019\u00a0\u201d he said. \u201cBut, instead, I immediately fought them. I noticed I actually wanted to kill them.\u201d One of the men ended up in the emergency room. Marco realized how much his behavior resembled that of his foster father. \u201cIt was a Henkel reaction,\u201d he said. \u201cI was a product. I was turning into the thing he had made.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Around that time, he was walking on the street when a female photographer complimented his looks and asked if he\u2019d like to do what Marco called \u201chobby modelling.\u201d He agreed and sat for a series of photographs, adopting a variety of poses: in some pictures, he looks like a chiselled lawyer off to work; in others, he is windswept and preppy. The photographs never led to jobs, but he began hanging out with the photographer and her friends. He compared the experience to being a foreigner in an exotic country and finally meeting people who are willing to teach him the language. \u201cI learned normal ways of interacting,\u201d he said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The modelling work inspired him to get a haircut, and, at the hair salon, a glamorous woman with a sprightly, cheerful presence, whom I\u2019ll call Emma, trimmed his hair. Marco tends to credit his appearance for the pivotal events of his life: he believes his looks were the reason that Henkel chose him\u2014many of Henkel\u2019s sons had dark hair and eyes\u2014and, twenty years later, the explanation for his first serious relationship. \u201cI was pretty, and she didn\u2019t leave,\u201d he told me, of Emma. He added, only partly joking, \u201cSome women are just really into asshole types, and I was one of those asshole types.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At first, he was resistant to a relationship, but gradually he found Emma\u2019s devotion persuasive. More than once, she slept outside his apartment door. \u201cI noticed that she really loves me, and that in life there\u2019s probably only one person who comes along who will really fight for you,\u201d he said. He tried to blunt his antisocial impulses by remembering that they were not innate but had been conditioned by his upbringing. \u201cI reprogrammed myself, so to speak,\u201d he said. \u201cI tried to re-raise myself.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When I visited Marco, in May, he and Emma had just moved from Berlin to a new development on the city\u2019s outskirts that he asked me not to name or describe, because he didn\u2019t want his neighbors to know about his past. He now has two children, and they were playing with Emma in their large back yard. Inside, Marco listened to meditative lounge music and drank water from the largest coffee mug I\u2019ve ever seen. I had the sense that with a different childhood Marco might have aged into a fairly jolly middle-aged man. He was playful and earnest and spoke poetically about his view of the afterlife. He shared his children\u2019s developmental milestones with nuance and pride. In a gust of hospitality, he asked if I wanted Emma to cut my hair, before apologizing profusely and saying that my hair looked just fine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A few days before my visit, the Berlin Senate had announced that it would commission scholars at the University of Hildesheim, who had published the preliminary report in 2020, to do a follow-up report about pedophile-run foster homes in other parts of Germany. Sandra Scheeres, the senator for education, had apologized to Marco and Sven, and the Senate offered them more than fifty thousand euros\u2014in Germany, where compensation for damages is much lower than it is in the United States, this was seen as a significant amount.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Christoph Schweer, the AfD adviser, had urged Marco and Sven to keep fighting, but Marco couldn\u2019t understand why. \u201cWe have gotten our wishes, so there\u2019s no point in further irritating or tyrannizing the Senate,\u201d he told me. But Schweer kept pushing him, Marco said. (Schweer denies this.) \u201cThen I slowly got suspicious. I asked myself, What else should I want? That\u2019s when I got the feeling that the AfD just wants to use me, to play me up. And I said, \u2018I don\u2019t want to be a political tool. I don\u2019t want to get pulled into an election campaign.\u2019\u00a0\u201d He dropped his lawsuit and accepted the Senate\u2019s offer. His only remaining goal is that, in the upcoming report, all the names of people involved in carrying out Kentler\u2019s experiment be revealed. (Schweer said that he had been supporting Marco as a \u201cprivate person,\u201d not on behalf of the AfD. He also told me, \u201cI have new ideas, but for [Marco] it\u2019s over.\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Marco and Emma were getting married at the end of the month, and he didn\u2019t want to think about his past. \u201cI just wanted to end the whole thing, to have this chapter closed,\u201d he said. He planned to take Emma\u2019s last name. He hadn\u2019t spoken with his birth parents or his brother since he was ten, and now he would become nearly untraceable. He had tried to Google his brother once, but he considered the idea of a reunion to be a waste of emotional resources that he could devote to his children. \u201cIt wouldn\u2019t bring me anything, anyway,\u201d he said. \u201cThe period of being shaped by my mother is over.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At the end of my visit, Marco\u2019s wedding ring arrived in the mail. Emma shrieked with joy, but Marco held the ring in his hand dispassionately and joked that he had to marry eventually, so he might as well do it now. He disguised his obvious tenderness toward her with a show of indifference that Emma apparently knew not to take seriously. \u201cThese are just the deficits that I have,\u201d he said, referring to the lack of emotion. \u201cI\u2019ll get through it. It doesn\u2019t matter.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Three weeks later, on the eve of his wedding, he e-mailed me. \u201cIn an hour around 10 a.m. we will drive to the registry office,\u201d he wrote. \u201cSymbolically, a new life begins.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-dropcap has-dropcap__lead-standard-heading paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">After leaving Henkel\u2019s home, Marco had contact with him only two times. The first time, when Marco was in his mid-twenties, Henkel suddenly called. He appeared to have developed some sort of dementia. He asked if Marco had remembered to feed their rabbits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The next time was in 2015, when Emma was pregnant with their first child. Marco drove to a clinic in Brandenburg where he\u2019d heard that Henkel was in hospice, dying of cancer. Marco opened the door to Henkel\u2019s room. He saw Henkel lying in bed, groaning in pain. He had a long, wizard-like beard and looked to Marco as if he were possessed. Marco gazed at him for less than five seconds, long enough to confirm that he was actually dying. Then he turned around, closed the door, and walked out of the hospital.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">After Marco got home, the radio in his kitchen was playing, but he didn\u2019t remember having turned it on. A singer repeated the phrase \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d He felt as if Henkel were trying to get in touch with him. \u201cI became a little bit crazy,\u201d he told me. \u201cI thought Henkel was a ghost who was following me, haunting me. It was definitely him: he was trying to apologize.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Henkel died the next day. Marco entered a state of grief so fluid and expansive that, for the first time, he cried over the death of his foster brother Marcel Kramer. He had lain in bed with Kramer for an hour after he died, holding a kind of vigil; then he cut off one of Kramer\u2019s curls, so that he\u2019d have something to remember him by. But he had never properly mourned him. Suddenly, \u201cthe blockage disappeared,\u201d he said. He realized why he hadn\u2019t left Henkel\u2019s home when he turned eighteen. \u201cI was bound to the family by Marcel Kramer,\u201d he said. \u201cI would have never left him behind.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A few weeks after Henkel\u2019s death, the sense of being haunted began to recede. \u201cThe freedom came slowly,\u201d Marco told me. \u201cIt was like a hunger that grows stronger and stronger. I don\u2019t know how to say it, but it was the first time that I figured out that I am living a life with a billion different possibilities. I could have been anything. My inner voice became stronger, my intuition that I don\u2019t have to live my life the way he taught me, that I can keep going.\u201d\u00a0\u2666<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Rachel Aviv joined The New Yorker as a staff writer in 2013. She has written for the magazine about a range of subjects, including medical ethics, criminal justice, education, and homelessness. She was a finalist for the National Magazine Award for Public Interest for a story about elderly people stripped of their legal rights. She has also received a Rona Jaffe Foundation Writers\u2019 Award and the Scripps Howard Award, for her reporting about police violence. Aviv was a 2019 national fellow at New America and a winner of the 2020 Whiting Nonfiction Grant for her book in progress about mental illness.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; German Experiment That Placed Foster Children with Pedophiles, The New Yorker, July 26, 2021 &nbsp; To stare pure evil in the face with all its delusional complexities, yet the stark totality of its lies when fully revealed, is always, for a mind with\u00a0any [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1001004,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12292"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1001004"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12292"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12330,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12292\/revisions\/12330"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldcampaign.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}